What motivates people to come to church? I recently had this conversation with someone who attends church whenever the doors are open. We recently began a men’s group for the express purpose of promoting and encouraging men to follow Christ. The conversation began as a response to our men’s discipleship group. I was told, in effect, that the group was useless as it does not give men answers to the problems they face in daily life. Right. It is not meant to. It was designed for the express purpose of encouraging men to be disciples.
But the conversation was very productive. I was asked what my goal for the church was. I explained that I want the church to become a place where people are saved (come to know Jesus as Savior), learn to be disciples (follow Christ), and are sent out as servants with the gospel of Christ. The response I received was very revealing. It began with a sigh, a lowered voice, and a slumping of the shoulders. Considering that non-verbal cues account for 93% of communication, that was a loud expression of disapproval.
Next came the statement, “I was hoping you would understand why people come to church.” Essentially, I was told that people come to church to find answers to their problems. “Everyday life beats people up. They come looking for answers to their addictions, personality disorders, family problems, relational problems, etc., etc.,” I was told. In effect, I was being informed that I was out of touch with people. There was no complaint that I had not addressed an urgent need in one’s life, but the general sense was given that I did not understand people. Hmm.
Immediately after that conversation
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